Friday, May 15, 2009

it takes 10 yrs to find true friendship, but just 10 minutes to destroy it...

sometimes, hurtful words/comments are said on the heat of the moment, and the other party probably didn't mean it that way either. but these 10 minutes, those few words, might just break a friendship that took 10 years to cultivate and maintain...

never say 'i don't wanna be frens with you anymore'. it could be more hurtful and sensitive than you think. friendship isn't something that can be placed on the bargaining table, neither can it be terminated upon command. it goes much deeper than that. and it is especially true for long time frens. is it worth it to quarrel over something minor, and not talk to each other for days, before realising that it is all a silly mistake and regret all the harsh words spoken?

the difference between true frens and mere acquaintances is that the former cares for you, while the latter cares for himself/herself. unfortunately, it's simply the reality of life. no mere acquaintance is going to console you when you are down, help you get up when you've fallen, or share your joy when you have succeeded.

and that's what a true fren does.

friendship doesn't come easy, and certainly doesn't come cheap. It comes with a lifetime of ranting, consoling, and offerings of helping hands. but you and i both know darn well that it is worth all that. And more=)

and once again, a nice song=) actually its my all time favourite jay chou song...i dunno why...just that this song draws me=D...

枫---周杰伦

曲:周杰伦 词:方文山

乌云在我们心里刻下一块阴影
我聆听沉寂已久的心情
清晰透明
就像美丽的风景
总在回忆里才看的清

被伤透的心能不能够继续爱我
我用力牵起没温度的双手
过往温柔
已经被时间上锁
只剩挥散不去的难过

缓缓掉落的枫叶像思念
我点燃烛火温暖岁末的秋天
极光掠过天边
北风掠过想你的容颜
我把爱烧成了落叶
却换不回熟悉的那张脸

缓缓掉落的枫叶像思念
为何挽回要赶在冬天来之前
爱你穿越时间 
两行来自秋末的眼泪
让爱渗透了地面  
我要的只是你在我身边

被伤透的心能不能够继续爱我
我用力牵起没温度的双手
过往温柔 
已经被时间上锁
只剩挥散不去的难过

在山腰间飘逸的红雨
随著北风凋零 
我轻轻摇曳风铃
想唤醒被遗弃的爱情
雪花已铺满了地 
深怕窗外枫叶已结成冰

缓缓掉落的枫叶像思念
我点燃烛火温暖岁末的秋天
极光掠过天边
北风掠过想你的容颜
我把爱烧成了落叶
却换不回熟悉的那张脸

缓缓掉落的枫叶像思念
为何挽回要赶在冬天来之前
爱你穿越时间 
两行来自秋末的眼泪
让爱渗透了地面
我要的只是你在我身边...

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